“Throughout my years of coaching I have come to see and understand 3 main things about relationships:
1. Any relationship CAN work if the two individuals in the relationship a)Want it to work and b)Are willing to work through the issues that are blocking the relationship from flowing.
2. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship – so you might as well throw that out of your psychie right now. I do however, know, and have met couples who flow incredibly well together – sometimes it will take no effort at all, while at other times, it will take great effort, persistence, patience, and love.
3. Issues in your romantic relationship have less to do with the relationship as a whole and are generally more about you in some way and therefore shows a great deal about how you look at life and how you treat yourself. If you respect yourself, your partner will too. If you take care of yourself, your partner will offer to do the same.
This is both great and awful news… great news because it means you can shift your relationship for the better, awful, because you cannot shift your partner/spouse – shifting is up to him/her.
Couples Coaching Sessions are typically conducted with Joshua at his office downtown Toronto, Canada and are 2 hours in length. To create a momentum, Joshua recommends monthly sessions, or at the least, consistent sessions for a duration of time to create a momentum and to clear and work through ‘issues’ that might be long-standing between partners. Some clients also add in one-to-one sessions to complement the Couple’s Coaching experience.